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Herpes or not?

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  • This topic has 6 replies, 2 voices, and was last updated 6 months, 2 weeks ago by Terri Warren.
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    • August 31, 2022 at 3:07 pm #78623
      Feelingregret
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      Okay, so I’m a 28 yo male & basically I went to an Asian erotic massage parlor, she massaged me then started giving me hand job and then asked if I wanted more and regrettably I agreed and she got a condom, proceeded to give me oral for about 15 seconds then I was getting into it and got her to agree to sex.. still with the same condom and I got on top and tried to have sex but lost my hard on (not really even sure if I penetrated) as it was kinda dark but I basically wasn’t hard and was probably in contact with her for about 15-25 seconds, no real penetration that I believe as I lost my hard on very quickly (thankful for that). Anyways we basically stoped after 15-25 seconds of trying and then she just gave me a hand job until I came. I was instantly filled with shame and regret when I left as I have a girlfriend of 6 years and just felt terrible about it. I was fine physically the next day other than feeling awful about the incident, until about 24-30 hours after the incident I developed a rash on the inside of my groin. Not very big, nothing crazy but it smells a little and just nervous it could be something more. Now before I went to the massage parlor I worked a long day in and out of the Florida Sun where I was definitely sweating quite a bit. So my question is do you think this could be herpes related or am I just over thinking this rash? No real symptoms other than a little itch and burning from the rash. Im definitely a hypochondriac and have anxiety as well, which doesn’t help. Hoping my mind can be out at ease and hope I’m okay considering I regret the entire thing and just want to be a better man for me and my girlfriend. Thanks for your time!

    • September 3, 2022 at 7:48 am #78652
      Terri Warren
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      I seriously doubt this has anything to do with herpes. You received oral sex with a condom – good job with that – and had extremely minimal contact between your penis and her genitals, if any. With the sun and heat, this may well have been a mild fungal infection in the groin. If you are still concerned, you could try treating it with an over the counter antifungal medicine or see a provider in person for a better evaluation. but I seriously doubt herpes as a cause of the rash.

      Terri

    • September 5, 2022 at 10:26 am #78681
      Feelingregret
      Spectator

      Thank you for your time and response! I did get some anti fungal cream and it does seem to be clearing it up. It’s been 7 days since the incident and so far no other signs or symptoms that I know of. Overall, so you believe my occurrence is a low risk for Herpes/ any other STD? Thanks again!

    • September 8, 2022 at 12:15 pm #78733
      Feelingregret
      Spectator

      I now have a small canker sore on the inside of my mouth, and what appears to be a small (as of now) cold sore forming on my lip.. I’m about 10 days removed from the incident. Could this just be caused by mental stress from the situation? The one on my lip is very small and I only just noticed it today. It’s not even blistered yet

    • September 8, 2022 at 12:18 pm #78734
      Feelingregret
      Spectator

      I should add that the one forming on my lip is right on the boarder of the lip and inside of the lip.

    • September 10, 2022 at 9:32 am #78749
      Feelingregret
      Spectator

      12 days out, no crazy signs. I believe the sore on my lip was just a canker, as I had some other cankers but they all went away quickly. Question though, if my exposure was potentially genital, could that still show herpes at the mouth? And if so, what is the likelihood?

    • September 13, 2022 at 8:35 am #78777
      Terri Warren
      Keymaster

      No, if your exposure was only genital, symptoms on your mouth would be unrelated.

      Terri

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