Im scared my life and future is gone

[Pleasesavemylife]

Hi Terri,
I hope you can help save me or clear my mind on wether i have HSV2.
I just got out of a long relationship(5year). She was a virgin so she is clean from the start. we broke up in July of 2017. I have not been sexual active with anyone since July with the break up.She never went to a gyno her whole life. She went a month ago(February or march 2018) and also ended up doing std checks.shes all negative.I’m not sure if she tested for herpes though.She has never had any break out or facial break out or any issues.She says she good and had nothing bad happen.We just started talking back as friends and we learned a lot from distance and things are going good.After she told me she got tested i thought i should also.I never had any lip or headache, fever, pain while urine, or blister on my penis or anus.the last year of our relationship was ruff and somehow i managed to sleep with two other woman with protected sex,no oral,or kissing,just plain protected sex.After the break up i started going to the gym etc.after the break up i did get some unknown bumps on my forehead.Dermatologist said it was hair felicitous.All what they gave me didn’t help with scaring or preventing some popping up.They gave me Minocycline.Now i do have eczema.Now that we are talking again my body stopped producing the hair felicitous.Now its actual regular acne on my face. Still i have no signs of HSV2.So i went to any-lab to get tested.Everything showed up negative beside for HSV2.HSV1 was 0.23, HSV2 was 2.77(3/29/2018). I’m super scared the virus is in me.I don’t want start the relationship back up with news of HSV2.shes my life.i learned a lot with the time apart.I’m more mature and have no reason/desire to be with any other woman now.This was my very first std test.Other than my face acne and my back acne(upper back) i have no skin infection or blisters.i do eat more for protein for the gym.should i get WB test? id like to confirm.last week i had hemorrhoids though,no blisters though.

[Pleasesavemylife]

I still have not break outs or anything werid going on. With my hs1 results being so low but hsv2 slight higher do it sounds like I had herpes? I think I’d like the do a wb just to confirm.

[Terri Warren]

You don’t describe your own sexual history here. How many lifetime sexual partners do you think that you have had? Your index value is in the low positive range and you definitely need a confirmatory test per the Center for disease control guidelines. This may well be a false positive. I hope you will obtain a herpes Western blot or similar confirmatory test and not just assume that you have this infection.

Terri

[Pleasesavemylife]

I’ve had 6 partners threw my lifetime. The first 2 were unprotected. Both relationship lasted about 5-7 months. The 3rd partner was protected, we only had unprotected sex like 3 times of the 5years. The last 3 Partners were one time interaction with protected sex. Yesterday I called Washington and they are sending me a kit that I have to take to my doctor.its really hard dealing with this.i feel like my sexual life is gone.half my smiles are fake because this is on replay in my mind.

[Terri Warren]

I’m glad you ordered the western blot kit. This will give you clarity on this situation.

Your history suggests that herpes is possible but not terribly likely

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