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November 28, 2014 at 9:35 pm #2037wantToKnowForSureSpectator
hi Terri,
I’m a 54 divorced male. I had a full suite of STD tests run in preparation for starting
to date again. I wasn’t really expecting anything to show up as I am pretty aware of my
body and to the best of my knowledge have never had any physical symptoms. All other test
results were negative but my IgG result for HSV-2 was 2.89.As far as I remember I have never been tested for HSV-2 before. I was very surprised by
the positive result and there was no discussion when I received my results that this
might be considered a “low positive” with some chance of me actually be negative.
As I have been researching HSV-2 I have only recently become aware that there is some chance
that a western blot test is worth it to get a more definite result. I have not had any protected
or unprotected exposure for 8 months at this point and only 4 partners in the last 25 years.Do you think a western blot test makes sense for my case? Would a negative on one western blot
be conclusive enough that I could honestly say I don’t have HSV-2? (at least today….)During my research I have also seen comments from others along the lines of “the clinician said
(their) test result indicates that (they) have likely had HSV-2 for awhile”.Is there really anyway to know how long when you don’t have physical symptoms and no previous
test results? In my case it could be as long 35 years or as short as 2 years ago unless the
blood tests my ex-wife had when our children were born would rule out anything earlier than
their births.I’ve been mentally preparing that I am positive and know that when/if I meet someone that I
would like to engage with, for my own conscience and out of respect for them, I need to disclose
and let them choose how to respond. In support of that I have been working on what I would
say….could you look thru this list below and tell me if I missed (or misstated) anything you
consider important ?my list….
– I have tested positive for HSV-2 antibodies which means that I carry the virus in my body.
– HSV-2 is basically a skin disease that some people get very painful symptoms from that
can appear periodically and normally decrease over time
– Health experts estimate 20-25% of the adult sexually active population may have HSV-2 and
most of these adults don’t even know as they have never been tested and they either don’t have
symptoms or their symptoms are minor enough they haven’t taken any action.
– Even though I have never had physical symptoms there is still some risk that I can pass this
on to a partner thru a process called “shedding”.
– I can take antiviral medications to reduce the shedding and we can use condoms to reduce the
risk down even more to maybe (2%?) but there is always some chance.
– HSV-2 is almost always genital so kissing and manual stimulation and oral both directions are ok
– there is no known vaccine or “cure” todayas far as the available antiviral medicines go,
is there any significant difference in shedding suppression between acyclovir and valtrex?I think I also read some claim that shedding decreases over time so being able to narrow down
when I acquired the virus could be useful information
– is this decrease real?
– is the decrease significant enough to matter?thank you!
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November 29, 2014 at 3:23 am #2040Terri WarrenKeymaster
– I have tested positive for HSV-2 antibodies which means that I carry the virus in my body.
If the positive is a true positive then yes, you carry virus in your body. You are in the low positive range and need confirmatory testing by western blot.
– HSV-2 is basically a skin disease that some people get very painful symptoms from that
can appear periodically and normally decrease over timeCorrect
– Health experts estimate 20-25% of the adult sexually active population may have HSV-2 and
most of these adults don’t even know as they have never been tested and they either don’t have
symptoms or their symptoms are minor enough they haven’t taken any action.Correct again. The actual number is 16% of people in the US ages 14-49 have HSV 2 infection.
– Even though I have never had physical symptoms there is still some risk that I can pass this
on to a partner thru a process called “shedding”.That’s correct Most new infections are believed to be transmitted from people who show no symptoms at the time they transmit.
– I can take antiviral medications to reduce the shedding and we can use condoms to reduce the
risk down even more to maybe (2%?) but there is always some chance.Correct.
– HSV-2 is almost always genital so kissing and manual stimulation and oral both directions are ok
Correct again.
– there is no known vaccine or “cure” today
And correct again, though there are vaccines in the works.
as far as the available antiviral medicines go,
is there any significant difference in shedding suppression between acyclovir and valtrex?NO. There is a nice study by Christine Johnson out of the University of Washington that looks at this specific question. You can Google it.
I think I also read some claim that shedding decreases over time so being able to narrow down
when I acquired the virus could be useful information
– is this decrease real?Yes
– is the decrease significant enough to matter?
Well, if there is still shedding there is still a chance for transmission. Even people with zero symptoms shed, so that’s a tough question in terms of what you really do with the answer.
You seem well informed and well read about herpes. Now all you need is a western blot.
You have two more questions, feel free to follow up.
Terri
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November 29, 2014 at 5:49 am #2044wantToKnowForSureSpectator
thanks Terri,
so I should contact your clinic during normal business hours to make arrangements for a western blot ?
thank you for the reference to the Johnson UofW study, the medical discussion is too technical for me to
completely follow but I think you answered my main question in your previous response. One followup
question I do have is if I still test positive, what are the normal recommended dosages for
shedding suppression for both acyclovir and/or valtrex? (since I don’t have outbreaks)if I still test positive, I guess I am still wondering if there is any way to determine how long
ago I acquired it….and trying to understand if there is enough difference in 1 yr vs 3 yr vs 5 yr vs
even longer ago that the shedding would have decreased enough to have any real impact on lowering the
transmission risk….I do understand that the risk does not go to zero….and maybe there isn’t really
much difference between 1% risk and 2% risk…if I still test positive, is there any practical way outside of a lab environment to determine when I am
actively shedding?if I still test positive, are there other medical conditions that a potential new partner of mine could have that
would put them more at risk of any more serious complications if they did get infected?thank you for all this site information and your informed responses
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November 29, 2014 at 5:05 pm #2047Terri WarrenKeymaster
Yes, if you want to get a western blot you an contact the clinic, set up an appointment for a phone consultation to arrange a western blot.
If the WB is positive, the normal doses for suppression are acyclovir 400 mg twice a day or valacyclovir 500 mg once a day. Both are equally effective WHEN TAKEN AS DIRECTED. Some people have trouble remembering to take a pill twice a day.
No, there is no way to know how long you have been infected if the western blot is positive.
No, there is no practical way to know how much you shed, but daily home swabbing is available though very expensive.
Anyone who is immunosuppressed has a slightly higher risk of acquiring herpes from you.You have one more post should you wish to use it to ask another question.
Terri
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November 30, 2014 at 4:25 am #2064wantToKnowForSureSpectator
thank you terri,
I can’t think of anything else major to ask right now so will wait until after I get the WB results
thanks again
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November 30, 2014 at 5:00 am #2065Terri WarrenKeymaster
OK
Terri
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December 27, 2014 at 4:30 pm #2477wantToKnowForSureSpectator
hi Terri,
I got the WB test done and received the results about a week ago.
HSV-1 negative for antibody
HSV-2 positive for antibodyNot what I was hoping for, but what I have been mentally preparing for.
I do have a few things I would like to ask for my remaining post.For my own understanding,
When you talk about 10% transmission rate for unprotected intercourse (with no viral suppression meds)
does this mean the typical person is shedding 36 days a year and infection transmission is close to 100%?….
or are they shedding more frequently and the infection transmission rate is (50%, 25%, ??%)?Do you have any advice on how early in a relationship to bring this up?
– there is clearly no point in bringing it up if I meet someone once that
I am not interested in but it also doesn’t feel right to hide it too long
from someone if we are both pretty interested….and for me there is some
risk of rejection at that pointBesides antivirals and condoms, are there other things either or both partners can do to reduce the
likelihood of transmission?… and no, abstinence is not really an option…LOLin particular, I was wondering about things like
– supplements for immune system
– avoiding contact when either partner is feeling sick
– other???chance of transmission is somewhat higher (10% vs 2-4%?) in male to female than female
to male, correct?I want to double check one of my earlier statements in a previous post…
I said – HSV-2 is almost always genital so kissing and manual stimulation and oral both directions are ok
Your response was – Correct again.So the risk of me transmitting HSV-2 (genital) to a partner from receiving unprotected oral is almost zero?
thanks!
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December 27, 2014 at 4:47 pm #2478Terri WarrenKeymaster
For my own understanding,
When you talk about 10% transmission rate for unprotected intercourse (with no viral suppression meds)
does this mean the typical person is shedding 36 days a year and infection transmission is close to 100%?….
or are they shedding more frequently and the infection transmission rate is (50%, 25%, ??%)?The way that I best understand this is that if there were 100 men with HSV 2 having sex twice per week with 100 uninfected female partners (just one on one sex), with no meds and no condoms, about 10 women would become infected. This is an AVERAGE. Transmission rates will be higher from someone newly infected and probably less likely from someone who has been infected for a long time. Transmission rates will be higher for people having sex more than twice per week. There are lots of variables. These numbers are averages and may not apply specifically to you.
Do you have any advice on how early in a relationship to bring this up?
– there is clearly no point in bringing it up if I meet someone once that
I am not interested in but it also doesn’t feel right to hide it too long
from someone if we are both pretty interested….and for me there is some
risk of rejection at that pointHave you read the Good News about the Bad News? There are two whole chapters devoted to this topic. In summary, I would disclose this after deciding that this is a person with whom you feel comfortable sharing very person information and before having sex.
Besides antivirals and condoms, are there other things either or both partners can do to reduce the
likelihood of transmission?… and no, abstinence is not really an option…LOLin particular, I was wondering about things like
– supplements for immune system
– avoiding contact when either partner is feeling sick
– other???No, none of those that we know for sure. However, developing symptom recognition skills is important
chance of transmission is somewhat higher (10% vs 2-4%?) in male to female than female
to male, correct?Correct
I want to double check one of my earlier statements in a previous post…
I said – HSV-2 is almost always genital so kissing and manual stimulation and oral both directions are ok
Your response was – Correct again.So the risk of me transmitting HSV-2 (genital) to a partner from receiving unprotected oral is almost zero?
The risk of you giving hSV 2 to a partner receiving oral sex from you? Yes, if you have genital HSV 2 you cannot transmit HSV 2 from your mouth, correct.
Terri
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December 27, 2014 at 5:25 pm #2479wantToKnowForSureSpectator
thanks Terri
I purchased another set of questions….
I did read your handbook earlier but will re-visit that.
In my last question from previous post I was trying to ask about the risk of HSV2(genital) transmission from me
to a partner who is giving me oral so she would get an HSV2 oral infection….that is, I am the receiver of
oral, not the giver…you said – developing symptom recognition skills is important
I understand that, also know my body pretty well and I am either asymptomatic or the symptoms are VERY subtle.
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December 27, 2014 at 5:29 pm #2480Terri WarrenKeymaster
The sections on telling and when and to whom is more detailed in the Good News……
So if a person is the giver of oral sex to you, there is a small chance that could get it orally. If they did, it would look like a cold sore. If they already have a history of cold sores, they would not be able to distinguish an oral HSV 2 infection from a cold sore. Also, it would vaccinate them against getting genital HSV 2, in essence. HSV 2 orally recurs and shed infrequently.I would just try to become aware of prodromal symptoms and avoid sex when you have a those. You can clearly identify things that are less subtle. And remember that there is only so much you can do. Some shedding is completely without symptoms.
Terri
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December 30, 2014 at 3:29 am #2509wantToKnowForSureSpectator
hi Terri
I was able to find a copy of your book at my local library and read it over the weekend and it has
raised some more questions for me.Both my original test (Captia IgG) and the WB test results showed me negative for HSV-1 and positive
for HSV-2. Does this mean I for sure do not have HSV-1?I am positive for HSV-2 antibodies but have never had any physical symptoms that I am aware of.
Is there any practical way to know for sure if I have genital or oral HSV-2?…wishful thinking on my
part …with the much lower recurrence and shedding rate of oral HSV-2 the transmission risk to a
new partner is significantly lower…even before suppression medsDo I understand correctly that already having HSV-2 basically blocks me from getting HSV-1 oral or genital?
as I mentioned in my original post, I do not believe I have ever been tested for herpes until my most recent
set of tests. I have had only 4 partners in the last 25 years but before that I had several so my total number
of lifetime partners is roughly 20 that I have had intercourse with and maybe another 1/2 dozen that I both gave
and received oral. Given this history and the statistics in your book and prevalence of HSV-1 in the population
I am almost surprised that I don’t have HSV-1…..it makes me think that I might have had my HSV-2 for quite
awhile…blocking any HSV-1 infection….does this seem plausible?…I’m also 54 now and most of my activity was in the 1980’s so maybe the HSV-1 prevalence was less than?
I am not in a situation that requires this at the moment but I plan to see my GP to get a prescription
for suppression dosage of acyclovir so that I have it available….and I should plan for a 5 day “lead time”
for suppression dosage to take full effect, right?After I got my first “positive” result…and before I realized there was such a thing as low positive I
informed my previous partners that I still know how to contact…which is only a 1/2 dozen or so…As far
as I know I have not infected anyone else but I also don’t know for sure that they all got tested… I
think some people find it easier not to know…because once you know….at least in my case…I also
feel like I need to disclose so any new potential partner can choose for themselvesI have had one new relationship since I first learned of my positive result and I bumbled my way thru a
version of “the talk” once it was clear we were both quite interested and before we got too far…
interestingly enough, after she did some research I think she was more OK with it than I was….I
found it difficult to just relax and enjoy and be playful while we were engaging sexually….which
was a noticeable shift for me…so I need to do some more “attitude adjustment” on myself. -
December 30, 2014 at 5:17 pm #2516Terri WarrenKeymaster
Yes, I would guess that you acquired HSV 2 a while ago and yes, that does protect generally against HSV 1 infection.
There is no way to know for certain where your HSV 2 infection is, but the statistics suggest that there is a 95% chance it is at least genital (could also be oral but not all that likely). If I were you, I would assume it is genital and behave that way – sounds like you are already on that track.
Yes, five days lead time for suppression to be fully effective.
And yes, to the best of our ability to know, I believe you don’t have HSV 1. We do not yet know the exact sensitivity of the western blot for HSV 1.
I would say it is completely normal for your attitudes about sex to change now that you know you have herpes. But I suspect you will “bounce back” once you’ve had a bit more experience with this and you continue to have experiences with people who are willing to take a small risk of transmission. I would also say that you might suggest that partners be tested to see if they are already positive or not. If you are having sex with someone else who is positive, there will be no concerns at all about transmission.Terri
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January 3, 2015 at 8:13 pm #2621wantToKnowForSureSpectator
hi again Terri, one last post I think….
trying to wrap my head around all of this…
1) I test positive for HSV-2
2) to the best of my knowledge I have never had any outbreak/symptoms (or so minor I did not notice and
I’m pretty aware) which means based on statistics that it is most likely genital HSV-2 (vs oral HSV-2)
and at this point there really is not a practical way to know this for sure3) to the best of my ability to get tested I am negative for HSV-1 and now since I already have
HSV-2 it is very unlikely that I will ever acquire HSV-1 at this point4) given my sexual history when I was younger and the prevalence of HSV-1 in general, it is quite
possible I have been positive for HSV-2 for quite some time and just never knew because I had no
symptoms and did not specifically get tested until relatively recently5) I still have some anxiety around infecting any potential new partner even if I have done “the talk”
and allowed them to choose…In your book in the chapter on transmission there is a question about whether a long-term partner will
always eventually get infected. Your response says that there is some belief that uninfected people in
LTR with positive partners develop an immune response that may protect them…Has this theory been
tested or proved/disproved or abandoned? How would this show up in the uninfected partner?…presumably
not as antibodies in a blood test…thanks for all your help/answers
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January 4, 2015 at 1:31 am #2626Terri WarrenKeymaster
1) I test positive for HSV-2
Correct
2) to the best of my knowledge I have never had any outbreak/symptoms (or so minor I did not notice and
I’m pretty aware) which means based on statistics that it is most likely genital HSV-2 (vs oral HSV-2)
and at this point there really is not a practical way to know this for sureCorrect. Remember to look for symptoms from waist to mid thigh, the boxer shorts area
3) to the best of my ability to get tested I am negative for HSV-1 and now since I already have
HSV-2 it is very unlikely that I will ever acquire HSV-1 at this pointCorrect
4) given my sexual history when I was younger and the prevalence of HSV-1 in general, it is quite
possible I have been positive for HSV-2 for quite some time and just never knew because I had no
symptoms and did not specifically get tested until relatively recentlyCorrect or the ELISA test missed it. 9% chance the test missed it.
5) I still have some anxiety around infecting any potential new partner even if I have done “the talk”
and allowed them to choose…That’s completely understandable and that won’t resolve completely probably ever. As long as you are open and share the information that you know fully, I honestly believe that is your sum of your responsibility. Well, that and taking daily medication and being aware of symptoms and perhaps using condoms, depending upon what you and your partner decide.
Yes, the research has looked at the CD8 cells in particular, regarding this topic of LTR partners. It would not be detectable normally in an uninfected partner, that’s a very very specialized kind of testing.
I believe we have once again exhausted our questions but I am here for you if you need more questions answered.
Terri
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