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Protected oral sex with cold sore

› Forums › Herpes Questions › Protected oral sex with cold sore

  • This topic has 5 replies, 2 voices, and was last updated 7 months, 1 week ago by Terri Warren.
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    • July 30, 2022 at 8:59 am #78221
      Dantes
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      So not my wisest decision. Gf gave me oral when she had an active oral cold sore but we made sure to use a condom.

      We made sure she never made skin to skin contact with any area that was not covered by the condom. Essentially I made a grip with two fingers around my penis so she never went down far enough to make skin to skin contact with any of my exposed genitals.

      From what I could tell there was zero skin to skin contact.

      However I did notice possibly some saliva that might have dripped down to some exposed areas.

      What are the chances of contracting herpes just from the possible saliva exposure?

    • July 31, 2022 at 3:49 am #78234
      Terri Warren
      Keymaster

      You were extremely careful and I think the risk of you getting HSV from some dripping saliva is very low. I suspect if there was a lot of saliva, you would certainly have noticed.ri

      Ter

    • August 1, 2022 at 2:58 pm #78260
      Dantes
      Spectator

      Thank you for the response. My follow up question would be if my girlfriend has oral HSV (she rarely gets cold sores, first one she’s had in years she said) even when asymptomatic am I always at risk at it transferring to me genitally with oral sex?

      It seems most people have oral herpes and most people also engage in oral sex.

    • August 6, 2022 at 7:57 am #78291
      Terri Warren
      Keymaster

      Yes, you are always at some degree of small risk since she is infected with HSV 1. Do you actually know that you don’t have HSV 1 or just think you don’t?

      Terri

    • August 9, 2022 at 3:25 pm #78384
      Dantes
      Spectator

      I have been blood tested several
      Times for herpes over periods of years. I get tested regularly also add In herpes blood test.

      Assuming I haven’t got herpes of any sort from this recent encounter I’ve always been negative both hsv1 and 2.

    • August 19, 2022 at 10:49 am #78429
      Terri Warren
      Keymaster

      OK. Just so you know that the IgG test misses 30% of HSV 1 infections (even when testing repeatedly) compared to western blot.

      Terri

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