Strip Club Lap Dance Scared

[Anxiouspleasehelp]

Hi Terri,

I am scared about an experience that happened on Saturday, November 4th.

I was in mexico with some friends and we went to a strip club. I have a long term girlfriend but I was very intoxicated and ended up getting a private dance. The girl was 100% naked and I was feeling her butt and breasts. I sucked on her breasts for some time, and at one point or two I put one finger in her vagina (maximum of a few minutes).

I was fully clothed, but she was asking to have sex or do other sexual activities (to get more money from me). I continued to say no I cant do that. So, for most of the dance (30ish minutes long) it was just her on top of my with my clothes on grinding on me and I would be sucking on her breasts here and there.

I know for a fact there was no kind of penetration at all. But, I am a little worried that I was so drunk that I may have taken my pants off and left my underwear on and let her grind her naked body on my lower half with just my underwear

Two days later I noticed a red circle mark on the top of my thigh. It did not itch or hurt but I didnt know what it was so I picked at it and realized it was essentially a blister. After it opened it hurt a bit when I immediately got in the shower. I then went to bed and woke up and it still did not hurt or itch but because it was a blister before it did look kind of ulcerized.

So i got scared and went to a doctor. The doctor told me that it did not really look like herpes because it was just one healing ulcer not really on a red base and that it most likely was fine. But I got it swabbed today and am waiting back on results.

My questions are:
1. If I was just wearing my underwear and my penis and genitals were not actively being involved, would it be possible for me to get a herpes infection on my left thigh (not even inner thigh just on the top)
2.ive read most first outbreaks are restricted to the genitals, is that true?
3. If i went to only boxers and got a lap dance, is that a high risk action?

[Anxiouspleasehelp]

Just to add on, my friends and I were all smoking cigarettes the whole weekend, so I am really just hoping I accidentally burned myself with a cigarette and that is what caused the blister on my thigh.

Lastly

– does me sucking on the female’s breasts for about 5-10 minutes put me in any STD danger?

– does fingering her vagina put me at risk for any STD at all?

Thanks.

[Terri Warren]

1. If I was just wearing my underwear and my penis and genitals were not actively being involved, would it be possible for me to get a herpes infection on my left thigh (not even inner thigh just on the top)
The skin of the intact thigh is too thick for virus to penetrate, which means it is not a risk.

2.ive read most first outbreaks are restricted to the genitals, is that true?
True

3. If i went to only boxers and got a lap dance, is that a high risk action?
It is not a high risk action at all!

Terri

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