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I have been in a monogamous relationship for 17 years and never was unfaithful until recently. I had brief protected sex and exchanged full body massage with an “upscale” escort 7 weeks ago. After three days had burning “electric” sensations in hands and arms mostly on right side. Saw my internist within 48 hours who gave me 10 days Valtrex just in case and a negative initial test for all STDs. After few more days the burning spread to my legs, particularly my right ankle. All of this discomfort kept coming and going and changing in location and intensity. Had few day break and then after burning sensation resumed in extremities, but also in the genital region and along my waistline. Had a negative IGG for all STDs at 4 weeks. Also experienced burning nipples (that had oral contact). Developed an intermittent low grade fever (100) that occurred mostly in the evenings, but never lymph swelling and no obvious breakout. Saw a ID MD who saw no sores and suggested this was all guilt induced psychosomatic symptoms, but ordered a test to occur at 12 weeks for all STDs. Genital pain got more intense especially tip of the penis (odd inflamed skin, but no typical looking sores or breakout) and bottom of scrotum. Fever continued only in the afternoon/evenings. Saw a urologist who prescribed CIPRO 12 days just in case was prostrate related. Still having intermittent pain all over (mostly boxer short are and right extremities) generally less with some really intense periods – always worse after 3 or 4 with low grade fever and recently, headaches. Is this possibly prolonged HSV prodome or other initial STD or merely my mind playing horrible tricks? I can’t imagine I am inflicting this much discomfort on myself. Are any of these symptoms consistent with an STD? Would appreciate any help you could provide. If HSV, what is the risk of non-sexual transmission to uninfected family members/what precautions should be taken?
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It is unfortunate that you were given herpes treatment, in my opinion, when you did not have any diagnosis suggesting herpes and that really got this herpes ball rolling for you. I have never heard of genital herpes causing electric sensations in the arms and hands of a single side. You mention having a negative IgG test at 4 weeks for all STD’s. Do you mean for herpes? The other STD tests don’t look for IgG really. When you describe a low grade fever, can you tell me more specifically what your temps were like?
Nothing that you have described here makes me concerned that you might have herpes. And I also don’t think that a single brief intercourse with condom would put you at much risk of acquiring herpes. Is there zero risk? No. But less, I would think, way fewer than 1 in 1,000. But honestly, if you were our patient, we would probably revisit a urology referral for more intense evaluation of the prostate gland. This generalized boxer short area burning would be more suggestive of a prostatitis that might take weeks rather than days of treatment. But these symptoms really aren’t consistent with the STD’s that we normally think about. When will your 12 weeks be up for further STD testing? No these symptoms don’t sound like an STD to me.
Terri
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If you are asking me what you should do about sex with your wife, I again think it is very unlikely that you would infect her. If you are asking how you might just protect your household members, that is absolutely not a concern. The concerns about manual contact is the lowest part of the risk here. The thick skin of the thighs and abdomen do not shed herpes virus so I don’t believe that the massage is a risk for transmission at all.
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Terri
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OK, I understand more fully what you mean by hands on genitals. Assuming there were no breaks in your hands and you have no blisters on your hands now I think this is very close to a now risk situation. There are no non-sexual transmission risks to your family for possible genital herpes. Sure wish I could help you more with what is going on with the burning, but I don’t have any good ideas about that.
Terri
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No, only a sexual risk to others you have sex with.
Terri
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Terri
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I don’t know what is going on with the burning in specific spots, but if you have concerns still, you could ask your provider to do PCR swabs from those locations. They can be done without any visible symptoms at all. I think it is very unlikely that you would have intermittent sensations for two months without any lesions and have herpes be causing this.
The University of Washington recommends waiting 16 weeks from exposure to testing for greater accuracy and so that is also my guideline as I believe they are the most respected source of information on herpes testing.
Antibody will not reduce over time because you will always have virus in your body, being active if even with no symptoms, and that activity causes the immune system to continue to respond by making more antibody
terri
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I know you are feeling badly about this experience, but I would strongly encourage you to take one step at a time, and process through the testing as recommend vs. falling apart.
Terri
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No, not really. I think it is more likely that if you had herpes you would have sores at some point that you notice.
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Terri
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