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Hello. 7 weeks ago, I received a protected fellatio massage worker. The whole encounter lasted only about a minute or so and I did not notice any skin to skin contact and the condom was still intact. She removed the condom with either her hand or a tissue, I can’t remember. She did not appear to have any visible symptoms on her mouth and appeared to be pretty clean. I had shaved down to the skin the day prior to going to get this massage. A week later, I wore the same skin tight spandex underwear for the whole weekend and had exercised in them as well. After this, a rash had appeared on the outside of both sides of my scrotum. I went to have this looked at and I was prescribed bactroban for folliculitis, which seemed to have made the rash go away as it has not been a problem since then. Other than that initial rash, I have not experienced any other symptoms, other than the occasional tingle in the tip of my penis. I was tested 1-3 days after that rash appeared for everything, including an IgG for HSV-1 and HSV-2. Everything came back negative and herpes results both being >0.91 negative. I wake up almost every day with a slightly stuffed up nostril, which goes away after a couple of hours. I have also developed a very mild tremble in my hands that only I notice. I have been prescribed with Zoloft and buspar for my anxiety and since then, I have noticed random muscle aches in my legs and back, mostly. I think the drive behind all of this is the fact that I have a fiancé that I do not wish to lose.
A week ago today, I received a hand job from another massage worker. This was a stupid mistake that even I am unsure why I did. I was so worried about this encounter that I went back three days later and checked her hands and arms for any visible sores. There were none and she denied to having any sort of a disease. The only thing I found weird was that she had very wrinkled hands and appeared very young. I just assumed that this was due to her excessively washing her hands as she is a masseuse. This encounter also only lasted maybe a minute or so. She was fully clothed for the hand job. I am really only worried about contracting herpes from these encounters as there was ZERO exchange in bodily fluids from genital to genital contact (There was none whatsoever). I have read that there is a minuscule chance of catching HPV from a hand job, but that is not something that I am worried about. My fiancé had a pap smear that came back positive for HPV, so there is a chance that I already have it, or atleast some strand of it. I have not been tested since the original tests that were done 7-9 days post exposure. I plan to go back next week to have my 8 week post exposure test done for the fellatio and then again at 12 weeks. I am unsure when/if I need to be tested for post exposure to the hand job.
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So the good news is that neither of these encounters put you at risk for acquiring a sexually transmitted infection. I certainly don’t think it is necessary to retest. If the condom covered your entire penis during fellatio, then herpes is not a risk there either. You’ve been very careful with these sexual encounters and that’s a good thing.
Terri
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I think you have no worries about the receiving oral sex part. I also don’t know who told you that you could herpes from being masturbated, but although I can’t say there is zero risk ever (herpetic whitlow does happen), I can say the risk is statistically so tiny I would not worry about it.
Terri
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Stopped up noses are definitely not a sign of herpes. I think at this point, if you were going to have symptoms, they would just appear.
I think if she had herpetic whitlow you might well have noticed something on her hands – a Band Aid, sores, something.
You are most welcome.Terri
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