Based on your response, I feel like you are saying that it is official that I have HSV2. What boggles me is that he tested in 2012 and was negative and we last had sex in 2013 with condoms. I know for a fact he was my only sexual partner from 2010-July 2013.
I really thought I was careful. So the vaginal irritation I have felt and the burning sensation I attributed to chafing were actually herpes. I had been using A&D ointment on the irritated areas and it made it feel better. But know, this is solidifies things. I must have infected him. What would be the point of getting tested when its so obvious now?