I am very concerned and feeling so horrible about my careless disregard for my family and myself. I feel certain I have an STI from this regretful decision and suspect HSV,. I will pursue a diagnosis as you suggest, but guess there is nothing else I can do at this point, but cope with discomfort and uncertainty. Your site and words have given me some comfort that I can keep my family healthy and hold out some hope this is not necessarily herpes. Thanks for sharing your expertise.