1) does that sound like a primary oral ob?
NO
2) if it was, it must mean the virus was In my saliva and partner 2 went down on me after kissing me and transferred virus….is it possible for iris to be I saliva with no sores?
Yes, it is possible. Did that happen? I don’t know
3) I have never had a typical cold sore never had a positive swab orally
OK
4) I just have numbness I chin and along to ear sometimes on cheeks and nose but no lesions…sometimes red areas but I also have eczema
I can’t say if that is associated with oral herpes or not
5) is 13 days too long for primary ghsv1 from exposure?
It’s pretty long, yes, I have rarely seen anyone show up with a true primary more than 10 days later.
6) is it possible to have no lesions In primary ghsv1 and just have clear discharge watery and swollen vagina?
It’s definitely possible but unlikely
7) in primary ghsv1, dr checked internally and externally at time I experienced pain and swelling and discharge and saw nothing on day 1 and day 3, could lesions internally appear on day 4 from onset of primary, not from exposure? is that too long to get lesions from primary
Four days away from infection is not too long, no
8) in your opinion, partner 2 who kissed me and performed oral sex on me and apparently rubbed the virus from my saliva into my vagina….does it make sense he would never contract it orally? he never had any kind of ob and if the same activity gave me ghsv1, wouldn’t it give him oral hsv1….I am trying to figure out of he was the giver.
No I don’t think that makes much sense.
9) I understand it is possible he didn’t get ghsv1 from my primary bc mens penis have thicker skin and perhaps be also didn’t get ghsv1 from oral sex from my primary oral hsv1, but wouldn’t it be easy for him to catch it orally? the same activity gave it to me genitally wouldn’t it give it to him orally unless he had it already?
The penis skin is not much thicker so that is an error in thinking about this. I doubt that this scenario happened at all.
anyway I don’t know if you can follow my rationale..::I really don’t blame him if he infected me….it happens…he didn’t know….consequence of having sex….I just find it perplexing and I just want to know the odds
10) final question, all my genital sores were never considered herpes by many dr and all swabbed negative but I had prodome and excruciating nerve pain in vaginql and anal area along with legs etc …one lesion I experienced a quick 3 sec tingle before appearing of which was In perenium area dr saw said looked like 2 tiny circular non herpetic lesions like barbell looking with thick white jelly like fluid. swabbed negative within 24 hours of appearing
does this sound like a herpes sore
No
11) other ones were about same area but were 3 white filled lesions with no red base on perenium area dr didn’t think was herpes at all swabbed negative
does this sound like herpes
No
12) what exactly do atypical herpes sores look like
Because they are described as atypical, they can look like anything – a skin split, a raw area, a red raised area, many things.
Honestly, without a more definitive lesion, I don’t think you can know if your infected is oral or genital You are trying so hard to figure this out but really, you can’t. You will have to wait for a more specific lesion to test, either orally or genitally.
Terri
Terri