Thanks for all of your answers. I have a few last questions. Since he has not been tested yet how long should we wait to have sex between out breaks if that’s what I am having since they are sudden and clear up so quickly and if he gets it from me how many days would we expect to see symptoms if he is going to have them? From what I have read its 2-21 days with 21 days on the long side? If he doesn’t have symptoms after 21 days then what? I understand you can go years or never have symptoms at all but it seems unrealistic to expect he wouldn’t see symptoms if we have intercourse if I have an outbreak that close to unprotected sex or even during an outbreak since I can’t distinguish when I might have one?