Hmmmmm. Sounds like an extremely difficult situation. I don’t have any magic answers. The only thing I can suggest right now would be to do some pooled daily home swabbing to see if you are actually shedding virus. Right now, you really don’t know, right? Is this something you could discuss with your OB?
I think if you found that you were NOT shedding (and you should do swabbing on drug, not off), then I think you could relax a bit, is that correct?