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Yes it is adifficult discussion. She says she didnt do “high risk” which indicates no intercourse and she is very unlikely to get oral sex from a stranger. The most I can imagine is external skin to skin contact-which may be enough. Its been a couple of days since she showed me and my eyes arent great but they seemed in the crease of the groin on the opposite side to the other earlier pimples which looked quite different (small red and with white head) and they are all gone now. She had slightly swollen nodes below those pimples, but hasnt mentioned them being belowthese new ones. These from memory looke pale small round and flat at the time. She has pulled away from talking about this and I dont want to bring it up. However I think if they had raised to blisters containing fluid, she would tell me.
How long do they take to fill?
Does it make a difference which side the swollen nodes are?
The tingling feeling a few days ago generally on one buttock is the worrying sign to me.
None of this whole 5 months has been typical. The time lines seem all out of place. In the early months the symptoms could be a number of things. These more damning events seem to only be occurring now-at the time of her second IGG. If it wasnt for the nodes and the tingling I would have dismissed all the other things. Particularly in the light of 2 set of negative results.
How often does such an untypical case like hers occur?
So I really only have the above questions for you now. I realise I have to wait to see what else occurs before I can come back to you. I think I have one queston left after this?