This very much looks to me like an old infection, not a new one. The value is really high for something brand new PLUS the exposure is not consistent with transmission. I don’t think you need to worry about potentially horrible outbreaks. I would bet lots of money that you’ve had herpes a while and have either had outbreaks that you didn’t notice or you attributed the symptoms of herpes to some other condition, like a yeast infection or a bladder infection or friction burns or bug bites. Can you think of anything, looking back?