I’m wondering if it would be helpful for you to see a proctologist. The specialize in concerns of the anus and rectum and might be able to do an internal exam that might reveal more than an external exam can provide. What do you think about that? Perhaps you’ve been just pursuing the wrong specialists. I will say, however, that stinging with bowel movements is definitely something that goes on with hemorrhoids, just so you know.
No, I don’t think a visit to our office would give you any more information than you’ve been giving me here. All I can say is that your symptoms and the timing of your symptoms does not sound like herpes to me.
I know you don’t seem to want me to consider the tests you’ve had done nor the kind of experience you had but that’s like not how I practice medicine so it’s very difficult to consider only your symptoms.
Can you find a proctologist in your area, do you think?