Did you have genital to genital rubbing at all at the massage parlor?
Genital to genital rubbing can transmit herpes so your question about virgins having HSV 1 and 2 is a little unclear because this may not apply. Do you see what I mean?
You will not transmit HSV 2 to social contacts by touching. I can see why you are a bit taken aback as am I by your diagnosis.
How did you get your western blot?