Reply To: Should I assume I have genital herpes (HSV 1)?

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My follow-up question is this:

How should I approach disclosure with this uncertainty?

I don’t ever want to infect someone’s genitals with herpes but, at the same time, if it’s uncertain that I have genital HSV1 (and genital HSV1 itself rarely transmits genital-to-genital), should I even disclose if I don’t want to scare off a person I would like to someday marry?