Pelvic pain is not a symptom of herpes. And genital itching can be present for any number of reasons. Your GYN is correct that program would not last as long as her symptoms have lasted. It is also significant that your seven day course of antiviral medicine has made no difference for your symptoms. When you ask about a tear, I am thinking of a Papercut type lesion but you’re saying that’s not what you had. I’m not sure where to go from here if your partner will not be tested. The only thing that I can think of is to retest using the IgG test about 6 to 8 weeks from the time that you had your first symptom.