Both of your index values are high meaning this is not a new infection. You’re not getting re-introduced to anything, you’ve just had herpes for a while. IGN testing is useless and has now been withdrawn from the quest laboratory choice of tests that one can make and the CDC says never to do it.
The changes that you described in your penis are not suggestive of herpe. Its does not cause a wrinkly glans it does not cause your glans to be shiny flaky or deflated nor does it cause it to be red or purple. You might want to consider seeing a dermatologist for evaluation of these symptoms