Hi Terri. Thank you for replying. I hope you feel better, COVID-19 sucks. Yes,the term Herpes does give me a negative feeling about myself and my health. I have not had any outbreaks. We engage in all areas of sex,minus anal, so I don’t know what area is affected. I don’t recall him having a cold sore in the almost 2 years we have been together. We kiss everyday so, I don’t know. Thanks for the information. I am working on forgiveness to myself and him.