I have had some oral sex performed on me since 2017. No vaginal sex except with the woman I know has been tested, and then only a few times. There has been no skin on skin genital grinding since my last test. There was the one instance seven months ago I described,for just a few seconds, no grinding. There may be a few others where there were hugs without clothes but no pressing together of genital regions or anything like that. I’ve been pretty conscious of that…and definitely no sex outside of oral sex.
I know skin on skin can lead to infection. And when I saw that sore or scrape, my mind went into overdrive, though it was seven months after the fact. Again, just terrified. And where the sore was is now a red patch of skin. Trying to assess possibilities.