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Both unprotected. I am ashamed to admit this but it’s best to be honest.
Slept with one Feb 3rd… and then another one Feb 8th cause I wasn’t sure which one I liked.
Feb 15th had anal itchiness for like a week or two -severe. Decided to date the Feb 3rd guy- he broke up with me in may. Slept with the second guy on may 18th and then had the swab test one bump on June 7th. The guy then got tested because “I’m nuts” and could have “given him herpes” and that’s when he got 0.8. His hsv 1 was 0.2 which makes me think it was too early to test. It seems like to me the second guy slept with someone else Eden though he denied it and gave me herpes from them. He constantly tells everyone I have herpes in my town. He won’t tell me his results and the other one said they will get tested on a few months when back from vacation. I am a doctor and feel so dumb for not using protection. Just the product of going through a bad divorce I guess 🙁 I’m driving myself mad and can’t function. I feel like I can’t move on from this until I know who has it to… I know that does sound crazy but it would feel like closure. I guess he doesn’t have any legal right to show me if he has herpes or not right?