By now, if he was going to have facial herpes,he would have symptoms of blistering on his face. I’m betting a lot of money that he does not. without a cold sore, I think the likelihood of you transmitting virus to him is very low indeed. Don’t hesitate to snuggle with him over this worry. It’s very important that you keep that up. Would you feel better if you went on suppressive therapy for some months while he is very small to reduce the risk of getting a cold sore and viral shedding?
Terri