Your experience just didn’t present a risk for the acquisition of HSV 2. Whatever was causing your pain with urination, it wasn’t herpes. Your clinicians told you that the bumps didn’t look like herpes which is good because if it was herpes, it didn’t come from this encounter.
I’m so sorry that you took the blood antibody test because it can have many false positive results – perhaps 50% of the low positives are false positives, or even more.
there is nothing that you did that would but you at risk for any sexually transmitted infection.
Terri