The oral sex doesn’t present any real risk for transmission – the risk there is HSV 1. French kissing is not a risk. The penis touching without rubbing does not present a risk.
I do not feel anything you’ve described as a real risk and I don’t think blotting again is necessary.
This is my professional opinion – I don’t claim to be perfect at knowing all but I am not concerned about you and HSV 2 at this point.
Terri