Oh, I’m pretty clear that those rather unusual organisms could be causing all these irritations and it sounds absolutely nothing at all like herpes. Glad you had the tongue swabbed so you know that wasn’t herpes either.
People don’t get exposed as babies! That’s so silly, but young people often get herpes from adults kissing them. Babies would get pretty sick with herpes.
To me, this sounds nothing at all like herpes.
Terri