So many of your symptoms, like feelings in your fingers, could have nothing to do with genital herpes.
Low back pain is so common for other reasons as well.
A negative IgG at 12 weeks out means with 92% certainty you don’t have HSV 2, as compared to the herpes western blot. maybe you should get the herpes western blot so you can take all of this off your worry list. Your sexual encounter was very safe.
Terri