I haven’t had anyone look at it and to my knowledge we’ve both never had cold sores.
I’m just growing really concerned about it as we are due baby in a month.
I think my only option is to have a blood test done but I’m not sure what test the NHS would use as I am in the UK.
In terms of risks from my encounter I have seen yourself and other experts agree that it can’t be transferred by genital to hand to genital but it is possible by sharing sex toys. I have also seen that you can spread it from 1 place of your body to another if you haven’t built up enough immunity on other sites. I’m confused as to what makes the difference between that and hand to genital back and forth.