Yeah, it’s not been easy. I can confirm that his cheating did include condoms, and one time without. I’ve spoken to one of the women.
I forgot to mention, i did have a cut on my outer thigh near my rectum, i don’t know if it was due to shaving, it never turned into a sore and resolved with aquaphor. I also had a little cut above my rectum that would hurt when passing stools that also resolved with aquaphor and hot baths. I’ve gotten that area swabbed before in april because I initially freaked out and it was negative and my OBGYN just said it was a fissure or cut from wiping.
Do either of these occurrences sound herpetic? They happened about post encounter from 6/28. Is herpes painful? Does it come in the forms of cuts? Would I know if I had an outbreak or can they be subtle? I’m stressed all the time and under a lot of anxiety.
If I test negative – should I re-test or trust the result and move on?