Why do you want to track your IgM values? the test is worthless with loads of false positives.
Since the exposure was oral only, the risk is HSV 1, not HSV 2. And the IgG test misses 30% of HSV 1 infections compared to the western blot.
I know you are having difficulty getting an appointment and I’m sorry about that. I would encourage you to keep trying if you want the blot. Stop doing IgM tests please.