Do you live in the US? If yes, then it would be helpful to rule out a false positive, to have those index values. You can order your own test online if you are unable to obtain your index values. What lab did your testing? If you can’t get your index values now then it would be pointless to use the same lab again, right?
So let’s step back a minute. Aside from your UTI symptoms, you’ve been well and without symptoms, right? So that’s how herpes is for you then. Just like you were before. Yes, you will need to disclose your herpes to future sex partners if indeed you have HSV 2, but if you are having no cold sores, you are at no risk of infecting your child or others you kiss casually like your nephew or niece. You are not going to infect your household members with whom you are not sexual. It would be good if you could read about stigma and decide if allowing stigma to set the tone and mood for your life is really a good idea. I think it is not, but you cannot be expected to sort this out reasonably this early in a diagnosis – give yourself some time to grieve the old you without herpes before moving on to find the new you with herpes.
There are clinical trials beginning yes but that depends on where you live and a lot of other things as well. Most will not be available to you as you are asymptomatic.