1/ What blood test should i ask my doctor to send me to the lab to know the type? and do I need to get off valtrex?(I did ask both my doctor and my gynocologyst but none of them knew).
If you were diagnosed 15 years ago, you should have had plenty of time to make antibody. I don’t think the current Valtrex would interfere with the testing at this point. The test you need is type specific IgG antibody – definitely not IgM
2/Should i increase valtrex to 1000mg? or ask my doctor treat my sleeping problem first?
No, get tested first. Let’s see what you have. Your sleeping problem is very important also, however.
3/My gynocologyst said that i could break the news to my partner that herpes, it’s like having cold sore not on the mouth, but on my buttock. Is that acceptable?
Well, yes, but you need to know what type you have first. Cold sores are HSV 1, but you need to find out if you have HSV 2